And so you expressed in dismay, “I don’t know! She like, freaked out when I told her that I liked her feet!”…
… Can you relate? Does this sound familiar? So, then, What is the one reason you don’t want to be labeled as having a foot fetish? Does this mean that you have a bunch of insurmountable foot fetish problems? And what’s more, how can you make your Foot Fetish Problems Be Gone! Yes! What can you do about it, Now!
Foot Fetish Problems Be Gone! OK, I know, it sounds like a weird and annoying Klingon Battle Cry, but I think a little bit of catch phrase never hurt anyone. Anyway…
Over the years, I’ve read about, and have been told about some of the negative experiences some (or many perhaps) have had when the subject of liking feet has come up, the foot fetish problems of kings you could say, OK, perhaps I’m exaggerating just a bit. But still, if you’re having difficulties in this area, then I think it pretty fair so say it is a foot fetish problem for you.
How so? Well, let’s begin by illustrating this with a fake scenario just for the sake of establishing some ground work on the subject.
There are many variations to this, but basically, it tends to go something like this…
A person (usually a guy) knows or likes a girl to some degree, maybe they’re friends, maybe something much more. Maybe something much, MUCH more. But at some point in the relationship, the moment arrives where he expresses his appreciation for her feet. Now There are many degrees of the liking or loving in this context, yes I know this.
And yes, there are many expectations that come with the declaration of foot love, but invariably her reaction to him is anywhere from unusually negative to downright hostile. It seems to be a game changer in the broader scheme of the relationship as a whole, leaving him in an emotional tailspin of confusion.
So perhaps he just convinces himself that it’s her loss, and maybe that’s true. Maybe he keeps his head up, like the “stiff upper lip” “pressing onward” “marching to the beat of your own drum” kind of thing, but inside he feels a little bit less of a person. He’s been down this road before, and he just “don’t” like it!
But actually, the more he thinks about it logically, the more illogical it seems to him that anyone, man or women, should feel anything negative about his preference, let alone care, No, certainly not care, especially when compared to the many, many, MANY, other questionable and downright unimaginable things people get into these days. After all, there are people that like to be vomited on, urinated on, choked, beat, you name it. But he should declare to a girl he likes, that he appreciates her feet, and remember what he’s really doing is giving her a freaking complement to be quite frank about it, and what does he get…
… he gets a reaction that would make a person think he was responsible for the Chernobyl power plant disaster, because that’s what he used to power the time machine he built to go back and team up with Hitler to exterminate the Jews!
OK, a bit too much on the overkill.
Still, hyperbole aside, what in the world he wonders is the deal with the arguably overkill reaction from women? “Maybe” he thinks; “Now, if I had told her I liked her butt, or her legs, or her breasts, I probably might have gotten a girls gone wild experience worthy of a Vegas extravaganza at some point”. But no! He went with something that he knows in his heart isn’t actually that big of a deal and, for that he’s made to feel a combination of “he’s committed a war crime against women plus he’s sub-human”?!?!?
…And so, he eventually goes to some forum, blog, or yahoo answers post, and just throws the question out there…
… And So, the question gets asked: “Why do women react so negatively to men who like feet?”
What You Need To Understand First To In Order To Make Your Foot Fetish Problems Be Gone!
OK, let’s face it.
If you’re reading this, you likely know of this, have heard about it, or experienced it. I’ve been asked this question more than a few times over the years as I’ve developed my Foot Art projects online. I’ve also seen variations of this same question, complaint, or puzzlement (depending on how you view it) on the internet too. In fact, at pretty much everywhere those who like feet congregate, this is almost bound to come up at some point.
Yet, I tell you now, that in the myriads of questions about this type of experience slash situation that happens to so many, I am here to provide the answer to this question that is so daunting and even puzzling for so many.
But first, let me make something very clear, what I’m about to share with you isn’t an attempt to be all about foot fetish bashing. No not at all.
This is however, about giving some perspective on where these negative reactions come from, and what approaches a person can take that will change the negative reactions into positive ones because, there is simply No Need To Stop Loving Feet, You Just Need To End Your Foot Fetish Problems With Women. There’s a way to do this that will make everyone very happy and just plain put an end to those pesky and unnecessary foot fetish problems you’ve been perplexed by too!
Nothing wrong with that, right?
Having said that, I’ll won’t go too far into the very specific application now, just a basic starting point for this article as getting too specific would get far off topic, but I’ll post an article about specific steps to apply, and how they will likely make for positive experiences when it comes to how you can present your “foot liking perspective” to women.
But for now I’ll focus on mainly answering “just some” of the “Why” in the “Why do women react so negatively to men who like feet?”